Therapy Technique
Eye Movement Desensitisation
and Reprocessing (EMDR)
- EMDR Trained
- BACP Accredited
- BUPA Approved
The Therapy
What is EMDR?
EMDR — Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing — forms an important part of my practice. It is a structured, evidence-based therapy originally developed to treat trauma, now widely used for a broad range of psychological difficulties.
I do not offer EMDR as as stand alone therapy. It is a part of my wholistic approach to counselling.
EMDR sessions follow a specific sequence using bilateral stimulation — such as guided eye movements, tapping, or auditory tones — to help the brain process unresolved memories, distressing experiences, and negative beliefs that are keeping you stuck.
How Trauma Stays
Raw and unprocessed memories
Adverse life experiences can leave us with memories that remain raw and unprocessed — due to the high level of distress experienced at the time of the event. Such memories can become linked to emotions, negative cognitions, and physical sensations from that moment.
When activated, we can re-experience the feelings and emotions as if we are reliving the past — even years later, even when we logically know it is over. The brain bypasses normal processing and stores traumatic memories so that it feels like no time has elapsed.
Through EMDR therapy, these memories can be reprocessed so that they become less intense, less disruptive, and no longer hijack the present.
How It Works
The EMDR process
EMDR is a part of my wholistic approach to Individual Counselling. It is not a stand alone offering.
I work with you to identify what is going on and where EMDR will be helpful. If we do not fully understand what memory and feelings you want to process and work on, then EMDR may not be useful.
EMDR therapy identifies and processes memories of negative and traumatic events that contribute to present difficulties. Each set of bilateral stimulation allows new associations to emerge — insights, other memories, new emotions.
After each set, you briefly report what emerged for you and we identify the next focus for processing. EMDR can target past events, current triggers, and future needs.
01
History & Treatment Planning
Understanding your history, identifying the memories and distressing material that are contributing to current difficulties.
02
Preparation
Establishing trust and explaining the process. Developing coping strategies to ensure you can manage any distress that arises.
03
Assessment
Identifying the specific memory to be processed, including the image, negative belief, emotions, and body sensations associated with it.
04
Desensitisation
Using bilateral stimulation — eye movements, tapping, or tones — to process the memory until its distress level reduces.
05
Installation
Strengthening the positive belief you want to associate with the memory, replacing the negative one.
06
Body Scan
Checking for any remaining tension or physical disturbance held in the body related to the memory.
07
Closure
Ensuring you leave each session feeling stable and grounded, with strategies to manage anything that may arise between sessions.
08
Re-evaluation
Beginning each new session by reviewing progress and checking whether previous targets have been fully processed.
Applications
What EMDR can help with
Although EMDR was originally designed to treat post-traumatic stress, it can be used to address a wide range of adverse life experiences, negative beliefs, and psychological difficulties.
Trauma & PTSD
The original application. Unprocessed traumatic memories that trigger distress in the present.
Anxiety & Phobias
Fears and anxiety responses rooted in earlier experiences — even when the logic of them is understood.
Anger
Disproportionate or uncontrollable anger often has roots in unprocessed earlier experiences.
Addiction
Underlying memories and beliefs that drive compulsive behaviours and addictions.
Depression
Negative core beliefs about the self that were formed through adverse experiences.
Difficult Situations
EMDR can also prepare you for challenging future events — reducing anticipatory anxiety.
I will work with you to identify a distressing event or negative belief that would benefit from EMDR. You do not need a formal PTSD diagnosis — if a memory or belief is causing you difficulty, that is enough.
About Me
Your counsellor
Gurpreet Singh
I am a BACP-accredited counsellor and psychotherapist with over a decade of experience, and Relate-trained in couple work. I work integratively — drawing from different therapeutic approaches rather than working to a single fixed model — and let your situation and preferences shape how we work. My style is conversational and direct.
Common Questions
Frequently Asked
What does EMDR feel like?
People often describe EMDR as different from traditional talking therapy — there is less analysis and more noticing. During bilateral stimulation you follow movements or sensations while briefly holding a memory or image in mind. New thoughts, feelings, and associations emerge naturally. Some people find it surprisingly gentle; others notice strong emotions that pass quickly as the processing completes.
Is EMDR safe?
Yes. EMDR is an evidence-based therapy recommended by the NHS and the World Health Organization for trauma. Before any processing begins, we spend time on preparation — making sure you have the resources to manage whatever comes up, both in and between sessions.
How many sessions does EMDR take?
This varies considerably. Some single-incident traumas can be processed in a small number of sessions. More complex or longstanding difficulties generally require more time. We will assess this together and review progress as we go.
Do I have to talk about the trauma in detail?
No. One of the distinctive features of EMDR is that it does not require you to describe or analyse the traumatic event in detail. You hold it in mind — but you are not required to verbalise everything that comes up during processing.
Can EMDR be done online?
Yes. EMDR works well online via Zoom. I use on-screen bilateral stimulation tools for eye movements, and tapping protocols that you can do yourself at home. Many clients find online EMDR just as effective as in-person sessions.
Is EMDR only for PTSD?
No. Although developed for PTSD, EMDR is now used for anxiety, phobias, depression, anger, addiction, and other difficulties. If a memory or negative belief is causing you distress or keeping you stuck, EMDR may be helpful regardless of diagnosis.
Can EMDR be combined with regular counselling?
Yes — and this is how I most commonly use it. EMDR is compatible with other therapeutic approaches and I integrate it within a broader programme of work, using it when it is the right tool for what you are experiencing.
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These memories can be reprocessed so that they become less intense and disruptive
EMDR does not erase memories. It changes the way they are stored — so the past stops hijacking the present.
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